The Masculine Challenge

Men are you listening? I’m about to share some of the best advice regarding women that I’ve heard in a long time. The advice is as follows…

Before you embark upon any type of relationship with a woman, be crystal clear about your intentions with her up front before things go any further. If its your intention to be just friends…tell her, if you want her as a girlfriend tell her…if you want a side piece (yep I said it)…tell her. When I say be crystal clear I mean talk to her open and honestly and make sure you reinforce it by telling her again from time to time. Men if you do this you will definitely stop a decent female turning psycho on you because you told her from the beginning. Now I know what you’re thinking…women don’t listen…and its true…we don’t. We often get into situations thinking we can change his mind because we really don’t wanna hear what he has to say after we’ve already planned the wedding in our heads (oh…its just me? LOL). This lovely piece of advice was said by Dr Umar Johnson, he’s a psychologist and relationship councillor, check out his website here. I think that this advice is golden because it causes men to be more decisive about what they want and honest, and that is a challenge. If you want to be a bachelor and sleep with as many women as possible, thats ok. If you are looking for the ONE and believe you will know when you meet her, thats ok too. As long as you let us know from the beginning and beyond…just be consistent.

I think its time that males and females got serious about being connected as one, especially from 30+. Your 20’s may be for running around and having fun (although some people are serious about what they want in a mate from then) but in your 30s your should want to build a foundation. I’m aware that things don’t always work out the way you may have hoped but at least you tried and I believe God will honour that and you will reap the harvest elsewhere.

This is a poem written by a seriously talented man, his name is Victor Opeyokun, his words encapsulate what I have been trying to say above but in a more sophisticated way. If only every man thought this way. His work is amazing, please meditate over these words and share with as many people as you can because it is seriously awesome. Enjoy!

WE ARE LIVING IN THE MATRIX OF THE ONE… WE ARE IN ONE CONVERSATION LOOKING THROUGH THE VESSEL OF THE ONE… WE ARE ONE VOICE STANDING ON OUR ONE EARTH… IN ONE LOVE WE SEE AS ONE… WE WERE FORMED AS ONE UNDER ONE SKY… THOUGH IT IS VAST… IT IS ONE… SHE CREATED FROM ONE THOUGHT… WE RISE AS ONE… THERE IS THE UNIVERSAL ONE MIND… BUT IT IS USED BY MANY… FOR THE FAITH OF ONE IS SHARED BY ALL… YOU ARE MY ONE… THERE IS NONE LIKE YOU… FOR YOU WERE MADE AS ONE… YOU EXPERIENCE YOURSELF AS ONE THOUGH YOU ARE FORGED FROM THE COAT OF HERMANITY AND HISMANITY THAT IS HUMANITY… CHA… THERE MUST BE BALANCE… TO HIM YOU ARE THE SPECIAL ONE… THOUGH YOU HAVE ONE BIG FAMILY… WE ARE ONE RACE… YET WE COME IN DIFFERENT SHAPES SIZES AND SHADES OF WONDERMENT TO MAKE ONE BIG LOVELY PICTURE… TO HER YOU ARE A SPECIAL ONE… FOR IT IS WRITTEN IF YOU SEE ANYONE AND DO NOT LOVE DEM… HOW THEN CAN YOU SAY YOU LOVE ME ONE…THERE IS ONE POWER… FOR WE DRINK FORM THE FOUNTAIN OF ONE TRUTH WHICH IS… YOU ARE THE ONE… YOU AND YOUR FATHER MOTHER ARE ONE… WE ARE FORMED ONE AT A TIME… NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK OR SAY WE CAME ONE AT A TIME… THROUGH THE PASSAGE OF BIRTHS BLESSING… YES EACH TIME ONE OF US WERE BORN THE EARTH MADE NOTE AND SAID… THIS ONE LOVELY ELOQUENT BEING HAS LANDED… YES YOU MY LOVE ARE REMEMBERED BY YOUR ONE TIME BIRTH… EVEN IN THE ANCIENT YORUBA LANGUAGE… THERE GREETING WHEN THEY SEE EACH OTHER IS THUS ‘A WA MANE’ YE’H O’ WHICH MEANS WE ARE THE ONES… OH HOW LOVELY THAT WHEN YOU ARE IN CONVERSATION WITH ANY ONE… YOU SEE THEM ALONE… YOU HEAR THEIR ONE VOICE AND YOU SHARE IN THAT ONE MOMENT… I AM A FRIEND WITH EVERY ONE… AS MUCH AS IT IS POSSIBLE…ONE FLIGHT… ONE LINE… ONE SOUND… ONE SUN… ONE MOON… THAT CATERS FOR OUR ONE EARTH…ONENESS IS ALL… AND I SENT THIS TO YOU TODAY ONE AT A TIME… ON MY SE7ENTH SIGN DAY WHICH IS V SIDE WAYS… AS IT IS MY DAY OF REST Ha Ha… A-MAN A-WOMAN.

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4 thoughts on “The Masculine Challenge

  1. I am a woman but I think that is GREAT advice. Tell us your true intentions from the very beginning (I would suggest multiple times) and then allow us to make a decision on whether or not we would like to move forward. Then she can only be mad at herself if she decided to settle for less than she truly deserved.

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  2. Man’s intention might get change, a man might tell woman in the begging I want to be your as a friend then afterwards his intention turns to want her as a girlfriend or the opposite.
    and what about women. Should they tell man clearly about their intention or what? 🙂

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