Grown and Sexy

For the last day of the year I would like to summarise what I have learnt and what I have shared in these posts in the year 2017. The title is Grown and sexy, and this is my definition of REAL men and women, who are forward thinking, forward moving and just progressing full stop.


Grown and sexy people are intelligent. They can always inform you on something that you don’t know and these are facts not opinions. If you are a Sapiosexual like me you will find intelligence sexy.

Grown and sexy people understand freedom and try to obtain it. Freedom is being able to do what you want with your time. Freedom is the empowerment to fulfil your responsibilities on your terms.

Grown and sexy people are intuitive. They are not always ruled by head but their heart allows them to see beyond the surface. Intuitive people are discerning and sometimes make decisions that don’t always make sense to people who take things at face value but when time is fulfilled you become aware of the vision in hindsight.

Grown and sexy people are builders. Builders are people who are “able to construct something of value and use that was not there previously” (Definition by Jason Black). When you establish something that didn’t previously exist you are a BUILDER. Look for people who produce and not merely consume. People who are employed are not builders, people who EMPLOY or provide something tangible through creativity are.

Grown and sexy people have a goal they are pursuing. Sometimes those who are in a relationship with someone who is working towards a goal can feel neglected. I’m here to say that its a good thing. If you are in a relationship where you are the only important thing in that persons life, (unless they are your manager) they are not working towards anything. I’m sure celebrities in relationships take a back seat to the other persons career on numerous occasions, building an empire takes work on both sides.

Grown and sexy people use social media for a purpose other than becoming an instagram model or filling a social void. I’ve learnt that the most successful people on these sites are those that provide a service. They serve without looking for self gratification, as a result they are satisfied helping others.

Grown and sexy people don’t just talk about their dreams but they are living it. They not only have a plan but are making steps towards it and they can show you the receipts. If they are planning on buy property, they have a deposit saved. If they are planning to be an entrepreneur they already are doing something in their business. People who are living their dreams can show and prove.

Grown and sexy people invest. Investing doesn’t always have to mean money, this includes time, effort, and energy. One of the most valuable quotes I heard this year was from Billionaire PA and he said “Rich people show up on time, Wealthy people show up before time and broke people always show up late”. Time is money. I understand why people get frustrated in relationships too because investing your time into others has to be worth it. Friendship are investments, romantic relationships are investments and you get out what you put in.

I just want to say a big thank you to all the people that have encouraged me to become a better me this year. I pray that 2018 will be a fruitful year that after birthing unique ideas, those dreams now come to fruition.

Peace, love and light family x

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